5 Extraordinarily Effective Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You
Video Summary
Evan Marc Katz is a dating coach who gives women relationship advices from a man’s point of view. In this video, he shares five foolproof tips to bring out the best in your man and get him to give you the love you deserve.
First off, these advices only work if you have a good, although imperfect, man in your life. If, however, your man is selfish, abusive, dishonest and a slacker, then the best you can do is to dump him at the soonest possible time because you don’t deserve that and your effort is only wasted on such a man.
1. Give him a break
Keep in mind that it has never been your man’s intentions to hurt you. Always assume that he’s trying to do the best he can. Assume that he loves you and he only has your best interests at heart. Even the most benign situations can turn into arguments. If you feel hurt, take a moment to discover why. He may have done something that you don’t like but how you deal with it can make or break the relationship.
2. Be a yes person
Nobody likes to be said “no” to. Certainly not you, and certainly not your guy. If you make plans, would you want your guy to say yes to your plans? Of course! So it stands to reason that when he’s the one making plans, he definitely would want to hear you say yes to him too, right? True, we all need healthy boundaries so you can’t say yes to him all that time but if it doesn’t cause you anything, then don’t hold out.
3. Accept him in full
Remember that the guy you are with is a fully formed product way before you met him. When you two got together, he had been looking for someone who likes him for who he is. If you try to change him, then he might resent you for not accepting him as he is and for wishing that he was someone else.
4. Stop Doing His Job
You’re probably a smart, succeddful woman who can do anything. That’s fine when you were single but once you get into a relationship, you have to let your man handle some of the reins. If you’re intentionally emasculating him, what else is there for him to do? If the answer is, “virtually nothing”, then he won’t likely want to stick around. Men love doing things, they’re problem-solvers by nature. Let him show his love to you by allowing him to do things.
5. Appreciate him
Appreciation is the only reward a man could ever want for anything. You don't have to make a big deal out of birthdays, valentine’s day, anniversaries – a simple thank you is enough. Acknowledge in particular those little things he does for you because he rarely gets praised for them. Nothing will make him feel better about your relationship than letting him know that he’s doing a good job.
About Evan Marc Katz
Billed as a “personal trainer for smart, strong, successful women,” dating coach Evan Marc Katz has been helping singles find love since 2003. Thousands of his clients have fallen in love, gotten married, started families, and found happiness – after only a few months of coaching. It’s an unlikely career for a man – much less a man who was called a “serial dater” by CNN- yet that’s what makes Katz such a unique coach. By helping women understand men – what they think, how they act, and what they really want – he empowers them to make healthy, informed choices in love.
His popular programs Love U, Believe in Love and Why He Disappeared have helped women attract and find the man of their dreams.
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