In this video for Digital Romance TV, Claire Casey answers a question from a letter-sender.
Is it too late to find true love?
The writer was a woman who seemed to have the worst luck when it comes to relationships. She was widowed at the age of 26, was then involved with a verbally abusive partner, and later moved into a relationship with someone who left her just three weeks before their wedding.
This woman so wanted to be married and have kids but is starting to feel like she’s not going to get either. She asked Claire Casey if she’s already running out of time to find her true love.
The answer is no – it’s never too late to find true love. And if ever you have those same doubts, there are three things you can do to ease them:
1. Note down your thoughts
If you feel the same way as the letter sender about running out of time to find your happily ever after, you most likely have a script going on in your mind that’s increasingly making you feel that you no longer seem to have a chance at finding true love.
When this happens, take the time to note it down in a journal. Don’t try to fight the thought. By writing it down, noting what your mind is doing and not being anxious about, you are carefully detaching yourself from it.
As you keep doing this, your mind calms downs and eventually, that script in your mind about not finding love in time will lose the power it used to have in controlling your behavior.
2. Move forward expectantly
The next thing that you can do is to consciously move forward in your life with full expectations. Expect to find love, beauty, and all the good things. They are there and you just need to be looking for them.
3. Get help
Get professional help if you can but if not, you have a support network that you can call and lean on to. You might be hesitant to burden your family and friends with your problems, especially if you have called on them so many times before in more dire situations.
Remember, though, that these people love you and want to be there for you. Don’t turn them away. Instead, get the support you need from them because they are the ones who only want what’s best for you.
Always keep in mind that it is never too late for love. So many good things await you, you need only to go out and find them.
About Claire Casey
Claire Casey is the author of the bestselling online program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.” She has devoted her writing to empowering women in the areas of dating, romance, relationships, and sexual intimacy.
To know more about Claire and learn how to attract and keep the man of your dreams, visit her website below.