July 30, 2017

Begged and Pleaded With Your Ex Already? How to Salvage Your Situation + Get Your Ex Back

Video Summary

In this video Brad Browning, a relationship coach will tell you what to do if you’ve already begged and pleaded for your ex to come back to you. If you’ve watched his other videos then you know that begging and pleading is something you shouldn’t be doing. This is one of the biggest mistakes you can make, but if you already have then this is how to salvage the situation.

Why Begging and Pleading Doesn’t Work

After a breakup, you may think that if you tell your ex how much you love them by begging and pleading it might bring you back together. However, this is actually counterproductive to that cause. It actually makes them less likely to get back together with you.

Emotion vs Logic

The key to rebuilding the relationship is to rekindle the attraction they had with you. In order to do this, you need to speak to their Emotional Control Center on the right side of their brain. However, begging and pleading only speaks to the Logical and Rational Center, located on the left side of their brain.

Wiping the Slate Clean

In order to wipe the slate clean, you need to convey to your ex that you aren’t heartbroken about the relationship ending. One of the best ways to do this is the ‘No Contact’ method, where you abstain from having contact with them in any form for thirty or more days. By doing so, you’re subtly and effectively telling them that you are no longer pining over the breakup and are ready to move on.

Another way of conveying that you’ve moved on is to simply date other people. Don’t be overt about it to your ex, but do so through subtle measures. This includes posting on social media or sending a global message to all of your friends.

A final way is to just hangout with your friends. By showing that you are going out and having fun, you are also showing that the breakup hasn’t left you broken and bitter. This will make your ex miss you and set the ground for rebuilding the relationship later.

About Brad Browning

Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.

Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.

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