In this video Claire Casey, a dating and relationship coach shares her advice on whether or not you can actually make a guy like you and what to do if you feel the need to do this.
You don’t make men like you. Period
Okay, so the first thing to understand here, is that you don’t make men like you. You cannot actually make anyone like you. You can only ever put your best self out there, and know, that the people that are attracted to that YOU, when you are being your most authentic self, are the right people for you. If you have to try and make someone like you, or even feel this way, then something is not right and chances are, that this guy is not the right guy for you, It should not be so much like hard work, so if you are even asking yourself this question then let it go.
Ask him questions and be sure to listen to him
It really is very simple to chat to a guy, just ask him questions and don't be so focused on impressing him, but think more about letting him open up so he feels you are genuinely interested and want to connect with him.
You can talk about yourself too, but be interested in him and for a guy, this goes a long way and talking about himself leaves HIM feeling good, and he will then associate this feeling good with being around you and as a result will want more of that.
Pay him compliments and make him feel special
A guy loves it when a girl makes him feel special by paying him a compliment so be sincere and comment on something that you genuinely have noticed about him but don’t be false about this as he will be able to tell if you aren’t being genuine and nobody likes a liar. If you see something nice about him, such as his smile, then tell him and say something like ‘your smile makes me smile’ so that you show him how it affects you.
Be feminine and be flirty
One of the main things that you can do is to be flirty and feminine and he will notice you because guys are drawn to feminine energy, Put yourself out there and don’t be afraid to be a little vulnerable, he will not think of you as being weak for doing this, his masculine energy needs the yin to his yang, so put your best feminine self forwards and just see what happens!
About Claire Casey
Claire Casey is the author of the bestselling online program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.” She has devoted her writing to empowering women in the areas of dating, romance, relationships, and sexual intimacy.
To know more about Claire and learn how to attract and keep the man of your dreams, visit her website below.