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How To Make Your Boyfriend Your Husband (Full, Step by Step System!)
Video Summary
In this video, relationship expert Amy North, author of the Devotion System, shares how to get your boyfriend to ask you to marry him.
Love yourself
A man has to admire you before he can fall in love with you. That is, he needs to admire you as you are and he needs to know you admire yourself. After all, if you don’t love yourself, why should he?
How do you do this? One way is to set standards for yourself. Show him that sure you love him, but he is not the only source of your happiness. Your man wants to support you but he’s not there to fill a void or fix your life. Be your own person and have a life outside of the relationship.
Share an emotional connection
To get a man to marry you, it’s not enough that you are physically attracted to each other. He needs to feel that there is a strong emotional bond between you, as well. It’s not just about being dependent on each other for support but about having mutual feelings about the same things.
An emotional connection is strengthened when you have shared goals, morals, and beliefs. It’s about behaving in a way that makes each other proud, even when you are not together. You know that you have cultivated this emotional bond when you feel a sense of belonging for each other. And that will make him want to marry you.
Add value to his life
To make a man more inclined to marry you, it’s crucial that he feels you bring him happiness and that you are the best part of his day. Be the reason he smiles and laughs. Be the person he goes to for support and be his crying shoulder.
Also, appreciate him. Men don’t often feel appreciated and he would love it – and love you for it – if you make a point of thanking him for the things he does for you. As well as that, make a point of doing thoughtful things for him.
Have unwavering commitment to one another
Commitment is manifested by trusting each other fully and completely. Many couples say they trust each other but they let jealousy get in the way of each other being their own person. Trust takes time to build and it should go both ways.
Be open to one another
You need to know where your boyfriend stands about the idea of marriage, especially if you want to be married to him. Find a way to introduce the topic subtly in a casual conversation and ask him lightly whether marriage is something he sees in his future. His reaction should give you an idea of his take on this.
He might ask you about your views on marriage as well. Who knows, maybe this is the cue he’s waiting for to at least think about the very real possibility of asking you to be his wife.
About Amy North
To know more about Amy, visit www.devotionsystem.com.