How To Stay Independent and Still Make a Man Feel Needed
Video Summary
In this video Helena Hart from Commitment Connection talks about how to make a man still feel needed in a relationship whilst also being independent at the same time.
Learn how to lean back in your feminine energy and RECEIVE what a man has to give.
Women can be so focused on not appearing needy, and try and be strong and independent, and what can happen, is that they operate from their masculine energy a little too much. This stops them from being open to receiving what a man has to give them. For example: ask yourself, do you often shut down a man who offers fix something or do something for you? Do you say “I am okay, I can do it’. Do you fear that allowing a man to help you will make him think that you are weak somehow?
Allow a man to help you, receive what he has to give as this allows him to feel good, and to operate in his masculine energy.
Use your masculine energy in order to take care of yourself.
Once you start to depend on a man, too much, for example, for food and for shelter, then you start to attract controlling men, and you will lose your independence and go totally into your feminine energy.
You want to strike a balance between your masculine and feminine energy and make sure that you use your masculine energy in order to meet your own needs, to take care of yourself (i.e be productive, get a career, get things done), but know when to take a step back and allow yourself to be more feminine so that a man can feel like a man around you.
When you are in your feminine energy a man can REALLY fall in LOVE.
By being feminine around a guy, he comes into his own, and feels great in himself, and when a guy feels good around you he is more likely to fall in love with you.
A contrast to the outdated ‘play hard to get, be independent and he will fall for you’ isn’t it?
About Helena Hart
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