February 16, 2017

My Boyfriend Wants a Break- What Do I Do?

Video Summary

So you’re dating a guy and he tells you, “I need a break to figure out how I feel about things”. That sucks- so what do you do? In this video, best-selling author and love coach Matt Boggs shares the three things that you can do when your boyfriend wants a break.

At the end of this video, he’s gonna give you six words that you will use as your mantra that will empower you, that will create a grounded sense of peace in you and that will help carry you through this experience.

Step 1: Set up time to reconnect.

What you wanna do is set up a time to talk. It’s useful for two things. When you know you’re gonna talk at this place and this time, you’re gonna relax and start living your amazing life. You can then let that person have his time while you focus on you, your friends, your family and pour yourself into moving your life in the direction that you would love. The second thing that this does is help him get clear. It’s not time that creates clarity. What creates clarity is the courage to dive deep into the hard questions. When you have a deadline on that, he knows that he needs to be clear when that moment comes.

Step 2: Give him space.

The space actually creates contrast. When you give him space, you’re actually giving him contrast of what life is like without you. When he starts experiencing what life is like without you- without the joyful times, without the laughs, without all the fun things you do together. So when you give him time without you, you’re really giving him the gift of feeling what life is like without you. In that way, he can become clear.

Step 3: Burn into your mind this mantra- the best is yet to come.

That is the truth- the best is yet to come for you. It can be hard to deal with this situation. What you’re experiencing is the best that you want is pulling away. But when you expand your view long-term, you realize that we live in the Universe that delights in expansion. It wants and seeks greater growth. The Universe wants to bring you something amazing. It’s either gonna be this man or if he removes himself from your life, ask yourself this question, “Is the Universe gonna bring me someone worse or better”? What do you believe? What you wanna do is while he’s figuring things out, you wanna work on developing your great life.

About Mat Boggs

Mat BoggsA true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time, and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.

Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.

As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.

To know more about Mat, visit www.crackingthemancode.com.