March 5, 2017

My Ex is Dating Someone Else and I Want Him Back: What Should I Do?

Video Summary

In this video Clay talks about how to deal with your ex being in a new relationship with someone else. Is the instinct to back off the right thing to do?

Your ex is with someone else

If you are working on getting back together with your ex and you discover they are dating someone else, your gut level reaction is often to back off. You want to let him or her be happy in the new relationship and move on. You many think you no longer have a chance.

You own it to yourself to go after your ex

If you truly have made changes and believe in your heart that you can have a great relationship with your ex you should go after them. If you believe that your life and your ex’s life would be better together than you own it to yourself to go after them and give them that chance. You owe it to your ex as well to have the option of reuniting with the new, changed you. If you really believe that a relationship with you would be better than the one they are in and the two of you could have a great life together, then don’t hold back.

Is it morally okay to break up a relationship?

This is a personal choice and where you draw the line is up to you. For example, if your ex has gotten married, morally you may not want to be responsible for the breakup of a marriage. However, if your ex is just casually dating someone you should not feel guilty about giving your ex the option of getting back together with you. As long as you aren’t resorting to petty tactics, it is okay to present your ex with the option and let him or her make the decision.

If you discover that your ex has moved on to someone else, it is okay to try to win them back. Your gut reaction may be to back off and let them be happy. If you truly believe that a relationship with the new you would be better than the one he or she is in than you owe it to yourself and to your ex to go after them. Skip the petty tactics, but don’t back off if the relationship is what you really want.

About Clay Andrews

Clay Andrews is a dating and relationship coach who helps women find the right type of man they can create a loving and thriving relationship with. He is the creator of Ex Solution Program- a program that helps couples get back together. To know more about Clay, visit his website below.

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