Should You Win Your Ex Back With a Grand Romantic Gesture?
Video Summary
In this video Clay Andrews, a relationship coach talks about grand romantic gestures. Is it a good idea to dream big, or is there a better way to show your ex you love them and win back their affections?
Life is not a romantic comedy
Grand romantic gestures only work in romantic comedies. Unfortunately, this is the real world. People get paid a lot of money to come up with entertaining stories that leave the audience on the edge of their seat. Will he make it on time? Will she say yes? However, your life is not a romantic comedy and treating it like one will not get you the results you are looking for.
Why it rarely works
Grand romantic gestures are entertaining for an audience, but in the real world they come steeped with so many expectations and guilt that it can be really off-putting for a person to have this kind of gesture done to them. They see how dedicated and wrapped up you are in trying to win them back and they know if they turn you down you will be crushed. When a person feels guilted into loving you, they are going to be repelled.
Live in reality
Stick with your plan. It is realistic and not based on movies or daydreams. Grand gestures rarely get the hoped for results. Staying the course has proven to be much more effective.
People trying to get back together with their ex often dream up grand romantic gestures in the hopes of winning their ex back in a single moment. The problem is that these gestures are really just dreams. They make excellent romantic comedies, but life is not a movie. All you will be accomplishing is making your ex feel guilty. You will be showing them that you are entirely wrapped up in winning them back and they will feel shamed. This is not attractive and is only going to push your ex away. Instead of dreaming up big schemes only to be disappointed, stay the course. Live in reality and put in the time and effort it is going to take to win your ex back.
About Clay Andrews
Clay Andrews is a dating and relationship coach who helps women find the right type of man they can create a loving and thriving relationship with. He is the creator of Ex Solution Program- a program that helps couples get back together. To know more about Clay, visit his website below.