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10 Biggest Turn-Ons For Men- Here’s What Men Find Sexy About Women
Video Summary
In this video, Relationship and Dating Coach Matthew Boggs shares the 10 Biggest Turn-Ons for Men.
1. Own your sexiness.
When you are comfortable in your skin, it radiates a sexual energy with men. When you know that sex isn’t dirty or bad but in fact a healthy part of a thriving relationship, that creates a foundation upon which all these other tips will be built.
2. Be the one to initiate sex.
When you make it known that you enjoy it and you want it with your man- that is highly attractive. Nothing’s worse than when a woman makes him feel like she’s doing him a favor by having sex with him. It’s much better if you’re initiating it.
3. Let your man know he is sexy.
When you tell men either verbally or with your body language that you find him sexy- he’d love that. You can even use the “kissing whisper”.
4. Smell great.
A woman’s smell is a powerful tool to ignite attraction. If you don’t smell good, it could be a massive turn-off. Use your smell to your advantage.
5. Infuse variety into the relationship.
If you’re always making love in the bedroom, change it up. If you’re always doing missionary, try new positions.
6. Do playful biting.
Bite his lip a little bit or his neck. It’s playful and it’s fun. Being playful is always fun and ignites the attraction in the relationship.
7. Wear his clothes.
Wear his shirts in a sexy way. If a girl wears his letterman jacket for example, it’s like saying “This is my man and I’m proud to be with him”. Put on his dress shirt and walk around the house. It’s a bonus if you got nothing underneath. It’s very sexy when a man looks at his woman wearing his shirt.
8. Give him a striptease.
Giving a striptease is so darn effective. It builds the anticipation of what’s about to go down. Anytime you increase the tension, you raise the attraction. But you have to be comfortable in your skin. You have to be confident in this. If you’re shy, nervous or hurrying, it’s gonna kill the vibe. If you’re fun, relaxed and confident with yourself in that moment, your man is gonna love it.
9. Allow yourself to make some noise when making love.
Allow your man to know that you enjoy what’s going on. The worst is a dead fish- a woman who’s just lying there and not making any noise or movement. Men want to know that they’re doing a great job for you and making a noise is one of the best ways to do that. Just make sure it’s a sexy noise- avoid whining.
10. Laugh more.
Let your joy fly. Let yourself enjoy the moment. Laugh a lot and express yourself because there’s nothing more magnetic and attractive than a woman who’s enjoying herself.
About Mat Boggs
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.
To know more about Mat, visit www.crackingthemancode.com.