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Expert dating coach and author, Mat Boggs, shares in this video specific types of text messages that will make him miss you more.
Contrast between experiences help to create the feeling of missing something. That is, knowing what you enjoy or like allows you to recognize what you don’t enjoy or like. The overarching principle to the texts you can send him that will help generate in him that feeling is this: Let him miss you.
Here’s what to text him to do just that:
Text #1: Positive Praise
It’s only natural for us to want to be celebrated. As human beings, we feel good when we are praised – and your man is no different. Send him something appreciative like:
“I drove by the beach where you taught me how to surf, I love how fun you are!”
“You are so damn charming. Just thinking about you is putting a smile on my face”.
“I had a great time. I love how chivalrous you are. Men like you are a rare breed.”
Text #2: Thoughful Support
What’s awesome about being in a romantic relationship is that your partner will remember things that really matter to you. You can show this throughtfulness to your guy with the following text messages:
“Good luck with your presentation. You are going to crush it!”
“Have a blast wih your buddies this weekend! Make some epic memories.”
Or when his favorite team is playing, make sure to let him know that you’re rooting for them too: “Go Steelers!”
This last one is quite powerful especially if he has a burning passion for his favorite sports. He will then connect that same passion he has for the team with you. And it doesn’t just work for sports, it could be about anything he has intense feelings for. When you can connect to that passion, a simple text will evoke feelings of missing you.
Text #3: Sexual Tension
Romantic relationships are more intense because of sexual tension and you can re-create this by texting him the following: “Woke up hot and bothered. It’s a shame you are not around.”
Or something that will get his mind thinking about what he wants to do with you, like: “Can’t stop thinking about what we did the othe rnight, it’s making me want to do it all over again”.
“I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there was somebody here to do it”
It makes him miss ou more and he’ll be thinking: “I want my woman here, now”.
About Mat Boggs
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.
To know more about Mat, visit www.crackingthemancode.com.