In this video, relationship adviser Carlos Cavallo of DatingAdviceGuru.com reveals how you can influence a man’s attraction and guide him to falling for you and chase you.
Tip #1: Stop Chasing Him…
If you want him to chase you, then you obviously need to stop chasing him. This chased /be chased dynamic is created by nature. Although you can allow it flip-flop back and forth between you and the guy, the chasing is his responsibility majority of the time.
If you are like most women, it can be difficult to establish that emotional self-control to not chase a guy you found particularly attractive. Especially when the man pulls away, your first reaction is to panic, believing that you could be losing him. So you chase him all the more. This show of insecurity will only make him back off real quick.
Tip #2: Give Him Competition…
You need to take a leadership role in making your relationship with a guy into what you want it to be. Crucial to that is the fact that your man should not think he’s got you all locked up. Men live and breath on competition and one way to grab – and hold – his attention is his belief that he’s always challenged to be at his best when he’s dealing with you.
Tip #3: Arouse His Desire For You
It’s quite true that men are sexually driven. Use that knowledge to your advantage if you want him hooked. One way to make him fall for you and chase you is to stoke his physical desire for you.
It doesn't mean you have to jump into bed with him the first chance you get. There are far better ways that you can spark his desire – wearing a killer set of heels, accentuating your asset, or teasing him with feather-light touches in non-sexual parts of his body.
Tip #4: Raise Your Standards
Women typically want a relationship faster than a guy does. While that’s a natural inclination, it doesn't mean you have to obey it. You need to get to know him really well before you make that decision to be with him.
There’s a rule in the business world that is just as apt in relationships: hire slow, fire fast. You will be hiring this guy for a very important position and you need to be absolutely certain that he deserves it – that deserves you. Set your standards high and allow yourself to fall in love with a guy who’s proven his value to you.
Tip #5: Know How to Get Inside His Head
A man will fall for you and chase you if you can make him think about you even when you’re not there. One way to do this is to not live your life for him or for the relationship. Move yourself towards the direction of a happy-even-if-single life. Don’t look for a man to complete you – that’s actually a dysfunctional way of viewing relationships. Instead, be a complete person going into a relationship; that will be incredibly intriguing– and attractive – to him.
About Carlos Cavallo
Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Connection Code, and too many other programs to mention.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.