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5 Remarkably Effective Ways To Make a Guy Notice You
Video Summary
It is only natural to crave for attention. It’s a way of validating ourselves. If we’re not getting noticed, we don’t feel attractive enough. Sometimes, women go to great lengths to get noticed, often ending up embarrassing themselves or attracting the wrong kind of attention.
This is why in this video, dating expert Carlos Cavallo of DatingAdviceGuru.com, shares five tips on how you can get the right guy to notice you the right way.
Tip 1: Give him the opportunities…
For a man to take an interest in you, he has to see you. And for him to see you, you have to be within his sphere of attention. You need to strut your stuff once in a while. If he doesn't respond, move on to other hunting grounds. There’s nothing wrong with doing a bit of peacocking but you don't want to work too hard to catch his attention. Every effort you put out there will make you wonder if he would have noticed you otherwise, so keep it at a minimum.
Tip 2: Invite his attention
While eye contact is critical, it’s not enough. You need to make eye contact translate to an invitation. How you do eye contact, then, is important: lock eyes for 2 to 3 seconds because that’s about as long as it will take him to register what’s going on. When your 3 seconds is up, look down and look away. It’s demure but it’s sexy at the same time, and it invites him to take it up from there.
Tip 3: Use your lips
Smile. In one study, it was revealed that a woman making eye contact with a man and smiling at him got 400% more interests from men compared to those who did not smile. To a guy, smiling tells him to “come over, it’s safe, you won’t be rejected or embarrassed in front of anyone”. To him, that’s huge. Most men have deep emotional scars from those times he got rejected for approaching a woman. He is now very guarded and would only consider approaching you if his chances at a good welcome are pretty high. So, smile.
Tip 4: Work your body
As a woman, you have to accept the fact that men will look you over, from head to foot. Not to be blatantly suggestive but because men, on the whole, appreciate beauty. Work this to your advantage. Study old movies of classy women from earlier periods – they have perfected the art of using body language to communicate their femininity. Emulate how they walk and their mannerisms because they are epitomes of confidence – confidence that manifests itself in the way a woman carries herself.
Tip 5: Flirt endlessly
Flirting is an art but it is an easy one to learn. Begin with being a friendlier and less guarded person and work your way to letting go of some of your inhibitions. Men gravitate to flirty women because men feel safe with such women. At the very least, he knows he’s not going to get rejected if he approaches her and she’s sure to be fun to be with.
About Carlos Cavallo
Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Connection Code, and too many other programs to mention.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.