- in Attraction
In this video, relationship specialist Carlos Cavallo, author of DatingAdviceGuru.com, dishes out some sneaky tricks to make that seemingly non-commital guy you’re with to fall hard for you:
Trick #1: Delight his mind…
Most men would like you to believe that they’re emotionally unavailable – afraid of commitments – but the truth is, he’s also looking for real love. He’s not all about fulfilling his own sexual needs when he’s with you, he’s also looking to invest in something long-term.
This is why, it’s important to him to know that you're his friend first, especially if a more serious relationship is brewing. That said, you need to give him a chance to get to know you better and to turn this into romance.
Trick #2: Delight his tummy…
The saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” is actually quite true. A recent study revealed that only one in six women know how to cook – so if you’re one of those in the minority, you just upped your chances with men. This is not male chauvinism; men are just delighted with women who can prepare them a good meal. In a way, it sends him the message that you will nurture him.
Trick #3: Delight his eyes…
Compatibility is a powerful force in any relationship. It’s not about having the same favorite colors or bands or shows. It’s more about having this synchony between you – that feeling that you seem to have a lot in common. A man is more likely to fall in love with you if you express the same emotions over the same things.
Trick # 4: Delight his heart…
Your man is not perfect, he will commit mistakes. How you react to his shortcomings can make or break your relationship. If you’re the type who makes no qualms about voicing your discontent about him to him, then know that your criticisms don’t go down easy.
On the other hand, if you talk to him in an affirming way, he’ll love you for it. By now, he’s probably well aware of his inadequacies and so the last thing he needs from you is a barrage of complaints. Instead, be the woman who knows how to support and motivate him through his failings.
Trick #5: Delight his ears…
Men are not only visual creatures, but auditory as well. If you want a guy to open up his heart to you, then you need to say the words that he needed to hear. Some examples:
- A man needs to know you respect him. It is an affirmation of his masculinity when you let him know that he’s good at what he does;
- A man needs to know that you want him so badly you can’t stop yourself from tearing off his clothes the moment he walks through the bedroom door; and
- A man needs to feel appreciated. He gets that so rarely that when you let him know how much you appreciate him, he’ll be sure to treasure that and to treasure you.
About Carlos Cavallo
Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Connection Code, and too many other programs to mention.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.