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Let’s say there’s a job you really want. Do you only apply for that job or do you apply for numerous other jobs at the same time? I mean most of us are going to apply for several jobs. We hope we’re going to get the job that we want. But at the same time, we realized that if we don’t have any backup offers, we’ve lost our position of negotiation and power…
Continue readingWomen, I want you to think of dating as a job interview. I realized that most of us grew up treating dating as often a casual endeavor and that we would just meet with somebody and if we like them and they liked us and the sex was good that we would get into a relationship and kind of hope it worked out. But if you’re listening to this particular podcast, that hasn’t been working for you…
Continue readingSo divorce, of course, we all know creates tremendous havoc in anyone’s life and it’s especially so if children are involved. And that’s said so in a high percentage of cases. It’s even more challenging because not only are you concerned about your own well-being emotionally and psychologically but if you have children there’s a whole other dimension involved before you move ahead in finding another love partner…
Continue readingA man who wants to be with a 20-year-old woman will be with her regardless of how you look or who you are. So what women need to realize is that the most attractive woman to a man is a woman who has confidence in who she is. She knows who she is no matter her dress size and she lives that fully. Then she will attract the right man for her…
Continue readingFirst of all, rest assured, we’re all attracted to the wrong men and the wrong women for that matter. So – and think about this, if you lined up a thousand people that were all intelligent, attractive, age-appropriate individuals, none of us would expect all thousands of those people to be a really good mate for us. We’d be lucky if even what, 5%, would be a good mate for us…
Continue readingAbsolutely. This is such a big thing. Not discussing issues when they come up in relationship is dangerous in a relationship because generally what happens is that the anger and resentment just builds and builds and then one more thing will happen that just tips it over and that mountain that has been building then just explodes…
Continue readingMen say what they mean; women say more than they mean. Recognize that a man usually says what he means directly so practice taking it at face value knowing it usually is what it is. If what he says isn’t clear to you, ask him to clarify right then so you won’t have to think about it later on. Make sure you are clear before ending the conversation…
Continue readingThe first one is ask yourself if you like him, not if he likes you. It’s more important that you like him and if you keep the focus on that question, you’ll be less likely to mold yourself into who you think he wants you to be…
Continue readingThe first reason that men sometimes pursue ardently in ample way has to do with the man’s attachment style. We all have an attachment style, men and women alike. There are basically four different attachment styles. And your attachment style is your habitual way of relating to an intimate partner. So, you actually have an attachment style starting when you are a baby and attachment style was your parents or caregivers. And odds are about two and three that you still have that style as an adult…
Continue readingThe ability to care for ourselves and the ability to care for others needs based on how we bonded with each parent. The first capacity allows us to become independent, how we care for ourselves and the second one allows us to grow up and is all mutually interdependent relationships with others. And so, this is the foundation for mature and sustainable intimacy in a primary relationship…
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