I am a Successful, Independent Woman and I Drive Men Away: What Should I Do?

My name is Christina and I am a successful businesswoman. Though I meet and interact with a lot of men in my professional life, I have not found similar success in my personal life. While my confidence and success inspires and motivates men in my profession, the same traits seem to be driving men away in my personal relationships. I feel men are turned off by my confidence and are perhaps intimidated by my success…

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I Fear Being Single and Lonely Forever: What Should I Do?

I am a 30 year old single woman and I have never been married and have no kids. I consider myself a confident, happy and healthy woman but of late, I sense a gradual change in the way I feel about myself. All my friends are married and some of them have kids. I am almost constantly reminded that I am not yet married no matter where I go whether it’s social events, parties or holiday gatherings. I have had my share of relationships some great and some not so great. But of late, I am increasingly feeling that I need to get married. I am also worried that I might never be able to find the right man…

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I am Dating a Man Separated From His Wife and She Is Trying To Woo Him Back: What Should I Do?

I have been dating a man who has been separated from his wife for 2 years. They haven’t divorced yet because of the financial situation (he can’t afford it yet). He maintains minimum contact with his wife and largely talks to her about the children. Ever since she came to know that he has been seeing me, she has been trying to woo him back. She calls him more often, talks about how much she misses him and asked him to move back with her…

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I Like a Guy Who Doesn’t Believe In Marriage: What Should I Do?

My name is Carrie and I have a situation with a man I have been dating for the last 5 months. In one of our conversations, I casually asked him about this thoughts on marriage in general. He said that he doesn’t believe in marriage but if he found the right woman and if getting married was important for her, he would be open to marrying her…

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I am Dating a Man Who Is Out Of My League and I am Not Sure the Relationship Will Last: What Should I Do?

I am a 31 year old female bartender and recently I was asked out for a date by a handsome, attractive man. Though I hesitated initially, I agreed and I had a good time with him. During our conversation, he mentioned that he was the Marketing President of a tech company. At first, I thought he was joking but then he showed me his business card. This made me uncomfortable and he noticed that. He asked me if anything was wrong and I told him that he was way out of my league…

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My Boyfriend is a Natural Flirt and Checks Out Other Women: What Should I Do?

My boyfriend is a natural flirt and that was a reason why I was attracted to him in the first place. Recently we were in the gym working out on the elliptical. A woman was running on the treadmill and I noticed my boyfriend was checking her out. Then she noticed that he was checking her out and she was smiling at him as she was running. He was smiling in return and this continued for a while before she stopped running, approached him and asked him jovially “Are you checking me out?”…

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I Tend To Fall In Love Too Quickly; Too Hard And Drive Men Away: What Should I Do?

My name is Kathleen and I have been dating a guy for 3 months. In the past, I have sabotaged really great relationships and ended up driving men away from me. I think I get way too excited and open up my heart and feelings to a guy I really like and I have the tendency to do it rather quickly in a relationship…

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I Want To Cuddle With My Boyfriend Sometimes, But He Prefers To Have Sex: What Should I Do?

My boyfriend and I are in an amazing relationship and we have a great sex life. However there are times I wish he just cuddles up with me rather than having sex with me all the time…

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I Want My Boyfriend To Propose But I am Not Sure He Will Do It Anytime Soon: What Should I Do?

I have been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for over 4 years. Last year as I was discussing our future, I told him that I want to get married to him soon and ideally would like to be engaged this year by June. At that time, he agreed and I was really looking forward to this year…

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I am Falling For My Boyfriend’s Friend: What Should I Do?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and our relationship has been on and off. I never truly felt attracted to him, though he is a pretty nice guy. Recently my boyfriend introduced me to his friend Kevin and ever since I met him, I have been attracted to him. Kevin is very handsome, attractive, has a great personality and a good sense of humor. So far our relationship has been platonic, but both of us are attracted to each other though we haven’t openly talked about it…

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