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My name is Janette and I will be getting married soon. My fiancé has not talked about having a prenuptial agreement but I am considering one. He has always been very open with his finances and even before we were engaged he allowed me full access to his account but he wouldn’t touch my money (he feels it’s a man’s job to provide and it gives him great pleasure to take care of me). However I have never used his money because…
Continue readingCan you share your thoughts on walking away from a man in order to get him to commit?…
Continue readingI have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and recently he asked me to move in with him. Initially I was very excited until I had a conversation with my friends. A couple of them have been in committed relationships for about 5 years and a year back they moved in with their boyfriends. Now they feel that was a terrible mistake. They were expecting their boyfriends to pop the question but that hasn’t happened. They feel that living together is the reason for the delay in them getting engaged…
Continue readingWhen i first start dating a guy, I feel overwhelmed. All day, every day, I find that I am completely distracted with thoughts of him. I can’t concentrate on my work and I find myself hoping that he will call or text me during the day. I’m happy when he does but feel disappointed when he doesn’t…
Continue readingI have been dating a guy for 6 months and he is nothing like the guys I have dated before. I am an outgoing girl with a curious mind and I love to travel. The guys I have dated so far have all been extroverts and like me loved to explore and travel. My last relationship was with a guy with whom I shared an amazing chemistry and our relationship started out great before it became rocky. There were moments when I felt I was the luckiest girl on earth to have a guy like him to moments where I was very hurt and disappointed…
Continue readingI am a 37 year old single mom and I was divorced in 2011 ending my 10 year old marriage. The last 3 years of my marriage were really tough because there was a lot of resentment, anger and frustration. I didn’t feel desired or appreciated nor was I sexually satisfied. I would like to enter into a sexual relationship with no strings attached. When I shared my feelings with my close friends, they were shocked and thought I was totally off my rocker…
Continue readingOf late, my boyfriend has been in touch with his ex. It all started when his ex contacted him and wanted to talk to him. Ever since he had the talk with her, he has been spending time with her every now and then. This bothers me because I am of the belief that you cannot be friends with your ex and you shouldn’t be. My boyfriend disagrees and he argues that just because I am in his life now, I shouldn’t expect him to stop interacting with people who were in his life before…
Continue readingMy name is Sandy and recently a friend confessed that he has had a crush on me for a long time. I was surprised because I have only seen him as a good friend. When he expressed his feelings, I felt awkward and didn’t know how to react. I think he felt the same way because he hasn’t talked to me like the way he used to. Things seem to have changed. I like him, but I am not sure if I will be able to see him as a boyfriend…
Continue readingIn today’s column, we reached out to our expert to share her advice on women who are struggling to get over their ex and how to heal after a breakup…
Continue readingI have been dating a guy for the last 3 months and while I enjoy the time I spend with him, there are a few things that concern me. He does not usually make plans ahead of time, doesn’t text or call me much during the weekdays and is usually only available during the weekends. Sometimes he stops by my place unannounced…
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