Category Archives for "Reader Questions"

September 1, 2018

I Would Like To Have a Prenuptial Agreement But He Doesn’t: What Should I Do?

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My name is Janette and I will be getting married soon. My fiancé has not talked about having a prenuptial agreement but I am considering one. He has always been very open with his finances and even before we were engaged he allowed me full access to his account but he wouldn’t touch my money (he feels it’s a man’s job to provide and it gives him great pleasure to take care of me). However I have never used his money because…

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September 1, 2018

My Boyfriend Wants Me To Move In With Him But I Am Not Sure: What Should I Do?

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I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and recently he asked me to move in with him. Initially I was very excited until I had a conversation with my friends. A couple of them have been in committed relationships for about 5 years and a year back they moved in with their boyfriends. Now they feel that was a terrible mistake. They were expecting their boyfriends to pop the question but that hasn’t happened. They feel that living together is the reason for the delay in them getting engaged…

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September 1, 2018

My Friends Don’t Like The Guy I Am Dating, But I Do: What Should I Do?

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I have been dating a guy for 6 months and he is nothing like the guys I have dated before. I am an outgoing girl with a curious mind and I love to travel. The guys I have dated so far have all been extroverts and like me loved to explore and travel. My last relationship was with a guy with whom I shared an amazing chemistry and our relationship started out great before it became rocky. There were moments when I felt I was the luckiest girl on earth to have a guy like him to moments where I was very hurt and disappointed…

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September 1, 2018

I Am a Single Mom Interested In Having a Strictly Sexual Relationship With No Strings Attached, But I Have Never Been Involved In One Before

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I am a 37 year old single mom and I was divorced in 2011 ending my 10 year old marriage. The last 3 years of my marriage were really tough because there was a lot of resentment, anger and frustration. I didn’t feel desired or appreciated nor was I sexually satisfied. I would like to enter into a sexual relationship with no strings attached. When I shared my feelings with my close friends, they were shocked and thought I was totally off my rocker…

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September 1, 2018

I am Not Comfortable With My Boyfriend Keeping In Touch With His Ex: What Should I Do?

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Of late, my boyfriend has been in touch with his ex. It all started when his ex contacted him and wanted to talk to him. Ever since he had the talk with her, he has been spending time with her every now and then. This bothers me because I am of the belief that you cannot be friends with your ex and you shouldn’t be. My boyfriend disagrees and he argues that just because I am in his life now, I shouldn’t expect him to stop interacting with people who were in his life before…

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September 1, 2018

My Best Friend Has A Crush On Me But I Don’t: What Should I Do?

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My name is Sandy and recently a friend confessed that he has had a crush on me for a long time. I was surprised because I have only seen him as a good friend. When he expressed his feelings, I felt awkward and didn’t know how to react. I think he felt the same way because he hasn’t talked to me like the way he used to. Things seem to have changed. I like him, but I am not sure if I will be able to see him as a boyfriend…

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