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My boyfriend who is 35 and I (38) have been dating for a year and a half and he seems to have a difficult time looking at me while I am speaking to him. When we are out to dinner he is normally looking around sometimes at other women, other times at random people or things on the wall, really anything but me…
Continue readingIf only there were a manual that could tell us step-by-step how to manage romantic relationships effectively. Since there isn’t one, we need to depend on ourselves and the advice of trusted others. Nowhere is this wisdom more needed than in helping us figure out whether we’re expecting too much or little from a romantic partner…
Continue readingI’ve been in a relationship now with a man for roughly 8 months. He’s 46 years old and I’m 29. We’ve met members of each others family, are planning a trip this fall, and though things are great now, we’ve had a few bumps. A couple of months ago, there was an issue with a ex-girlfriend of his crossing a line, and he covered it up…
Continue readingI met a man about 5 years ago at a park, I was there with my 2 children and he was there with his daughter, close in age to my own. We hit it off really quickly, and started spending a lot of time together. We spent about 3 months in each other’s company, with and without the children. He made sure he came to see me everyday despite the hour long drive…
Continue readingI just started a new relationship with the man I have been in love with. He broke up with his girlfriend and started to be with me after 6 months or so, but had feelings for me when he was with her. We have a lot of arguments almost everyday, even though I try to make everything perfect…
Continue readingAttracting the right type of man isn’t as difficult as it’s made out to be. Simply put, the problem isn’t who we are attracting; it is who we are when we are attracting him. It is quantum law that energy attracts like energy; hence, if we do not value ourselves (energy), we will continue to attract men who do not value us (like energy)…
Continue readingSo you feel like giving up? You’re starting to believe there are no good men left and/or you are simply unlucky in love. Pull up a chair, sister, and listen up because I’ve been there too. Six years ago I was 99% defeated and hopeless…
Continue readingI’m not going to tell you to cease all contact with your ex, stop sleeping with him or to put your relationship memorabilia away. These ideas are quite reasonable and definitely serve a purpose, but for true healing to occur, we need to go deeper…
Continue readingWhen you start to like yourself, other people begin to like you too. Liking yourself doesn’t mean you’re full of pride; it simply means you accept yourself as the person God created you to be.” – Joyce Meyer…
Continue readingThe first thing we want to do when we feel rejected is locate the “problem” and attempt to change it. We believe by altering our natural state of being, we will gain what we desperately want – a loving, reciprocal relationship…
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