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You are never too old to find love. Why would you be? If you are 50, you probably aren’t looking for a man in his 30’s. A man in his 50’s looking for a woman in her 30’s is probably not someone you’d want to meet anyway. I meet people all the time of all ages who have found someone special. You have to be open to it, though. If you are convinced that you are too old, it’s not your age that will be the problem; it’s your attitude…
Continue readingThe ability to balance a strong sense of self with the normal drive towards relationship is one of life’s biggest challenges. The innate drive for togetherness is very strong as is the innate drive for autonomy. We are born with both but there is no rulebook on how to achieve a harmonious balance…
Continue readingObsession or obsessive thinking about the person you are dating can be a sign that you are seeking to fulfill a developmentally-based unmet need through your relationship. All of us experience some form of developmental wounding…
Continue readingHow important is it to you to be in a relationship? Do you feel lost, unhappy, alone, or like a failure if you’re not in a relationship? If being in a relationship is super important in your life, you may find yourself “settling” for a guy just because he’s available and interested
Continue readingThis is an interesting question with a few different answers that could work. You must first determine what other factors are at play that have resulted in this loss of interest. Often relationships ebb and flow. There are hot and heavy periods where you are the focus of desire and attention and times when life is the focus and you are a nice extra…
Continue readingAs I’m sure you are already tired of hearing that the right person will come along when you least expect it, truth is, that leaves a lot up to fate and I believe that we are in control of our future at least in terms of the choices we make that set events in motion. In other words, if you want something go out and get it…
Continue readingThere are many, many ways to answer this question. Ultimately it is determined by your belief system. People say they have beliefs they put to the side and “things just happen”. Your beliefs are not only what you tell people they are but also what you practice…
Continue readingThings must not be going well if you are contemplating letting him go. It is a difficult decision to make even if things are not going as you had planned for them to go. Of course there are only two variations of outcomes if you let him go…
Continue readingUsually sexual attraction is what starts a relationship. While the sexual high often doesn’t last, it’s an important part of the bonding process. It helps to insure that the relationship will last. If it’s not there at the beginning, it’s really difficult to create it…
Continue readingTuning into your own wants and needs is necessary to figure out if or when you want to move your relationship from casual to serious. What do you need to check out with yourself to know when you’re ready?
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