Carlos Cavallo of DatingAdviceGuru.com dishes out the one trick that can make a guy want you in this video.
Say for instance you’re at a party with your guy. Another woman enters the room and your guy looks at her. How would you react? Are you the type to make some catty remarks to bring down the other woman? Or do you act like you didn't even see her?
Men are always going to look
Single or not, men are always going to look. Any red-blooded male has this built in radar that picks out women within his field of vision. It’s part of the psychological make-up that has helped our species survive – the constant search for potential mating partners.
When a man looks at another woman, it doesn't mean he’s not capable of being faithful or he doesn’t love his partner. Of course, it’s a different story altogether when he oggles other women, in which case you should call him out. But simply looking should not pose a threat to the relationship. It’s how you react that could be threatening the relationship.
Play it cool
Guys also have a built-in radar for insecurity – they can smell it a mile away and would rather be as far away from it as possible. This is why you’re not going to win points with him when you try to bring down another woman with your snide comments. As far as he’s concerned, it’s yourself you’re bringing down a notch with such remarks.
If you want to show your man you’re a confident person, you can't act threatened by another woman. Conversely, if you act like him looking is no big deal will actually make him want you even more.
When he’s done looking
Let him look. Don’t lose your composure over the fact that the other woman had 15 seconds of his attention. And when he’s done looking? He’ll be impressed that you remained unfazed by some random stranger where other women would have kicked up a fuss.
When you ignore the other woman’s existence, it may seem like a small thing but it reflects your self-assurance. It tells him you are pretty confident with what you’ve got.
A needy person would want her partner to assure her that she’s prettier when another woman is around. She can’t help but have her insecurities on full display. When such a small thing can make her jealous, what does that say of her? It’s a huge turn off for him.
So if you want him to make him really want you, don’t be that needy, insecure girlfriend. Act confident, and be confident. Know, too, that external beauty doesn’t really hold a guy’s attention for long term. Ideal relationships are instead built on emotional connections that goes beyond looks.
About Carlos Cavallo
Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Connection Code, and too many other programs to mention.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.