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February 9, 2017

How Do Men Fall in Love? 3 Incredibly Important Things Men Need in a Woman To Fall in Love

Video Summary

In this video Mat Boggs reveals how men fall in love.

To understand how men fall in love, it’s important that you understand how their brains work. Men compartmentalise their lives within their minds into neat little blocks – one for work, one for girlfriends, one for family, one for pets, one for sex etc. etc. Women, on the other hand, tend not to compartmentalise to the same extent – their thoughts and feelings are fluid and their emotions towards different areas of the lives overlap. Women’s emotional and sexual thoughts overlap – while men’s tend to be kept separately. So what does this mean for how and why men fall in love?

Men Fall in Love with Women They Are Attracted to

Although personality, connection and a sense of togetherness are incredibly important in a relationship, probably the thing that matters most in the first stages is attractiveness. Men will not marry a woman that they are not sexually attracted to – end of story. In the first stages of a relationship, a man will be struggling a little with wanting to come across as a good guy and his physical feelings towards you – he’ll want to balance the two.

Men Fall in Love with Women They Respect

Respect is incredibly important within a relationship, and if he’s going to fall in love with you, he must respect you. One of the most important ways to develop respect is, quite simply, to not give it up. In a lot of cases, men will find it difficult to respect a woman that he sleeps with on the very first date. If he signs your contract – and that means adheres to your boundaries and the things that you think are important – then he gets to be with you. He’ll realise that he’s spending time with you because he likes you, or because he’s falling in love with you, not just because he wants to have sex with you. If you demonstrate that you’re strong and that you have strong boundaries, he’ll ask himself questions about whether or not he wants to commit and whether he wants to be with you.

Men Fall in Love with Women They Can Provide for

Men like to be the provider and often times, they like to be the leader. If you come out and tell him what you want, when you want it, most men will find that incredibly attractive. And they want to do it for you – men like to give you what you want and they like to provide for you. If he can provide for you, not necessarily in terms of finances but in terms of providing for you emotionally or physically, he can also fall in love with you.

About Mat Boggs

Mat BoggsA true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time, and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.

Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.

As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.

To know more about Mat, visit www.crackingthemancode.com.

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