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Relationship coach Amy North, author of The Devotion System, dishes out some tips on how you can get your man to think about you and only you. Particularly, you can evoke this intense feeling of love from him just by texting if you follow these five pointers.
Being bold or being confident is not just about looking good and speaking your mind. It means being genuinely loving and appreciating yourself for who you are and what you do. To do this, you need to tune in to yourself so you are better able to recognize your strength and realize why you are such a great catch.
True, you may come across your flaws, too, but that can only be a good thing. When you can pinpoint your weaknesses, you identify areas in your life that need improving.
Once you’ve come to terms with where you are at in your life right now, it’s time to boost your confidence. For starters, try new projects. Find something that makes you happy. Not only will it translate to more positivity in your life – and better confidence – it will also make for great texting topics.
Nothing good comes easy so a man needs to work for his love for you. You can do this through texting by playing the slow game: be a bit flirtatious but know when to hold back. Keep him on his toes by creating tension. Send subtle hints that you are into him but don’t go over board. When you keep him working for your attention and affection, you will have him hooked.
Whether you’re ready to jump into bed with him or not, letting him think that he does stand a chance in this department will fuel his desire for you. Of course you shouldn’t tell him so explicitly, after all you don’t want to seem easy. Subtle teasing will do the trick. Read the signals he’s sending you and flirt back but give only about 75% of what he’s giving you.
Most men would say that they feel unappreciated by their women. So if you want to be the woman to make your man crazy in love with you, be the woman who makes him feel like a million bucks.
It doesn't take much to show him that you appreciate him. You can do this by simply recognizing the things he does for you and making a point of thanking him for them, however small they seem to be.
Be your own person
One of the most attractive traits a woman can possess is independence. Men can’t resist a woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to go for it. Be that woman.
Don’t look to a man to complete you; that will only make you seem clingy and will make him think twice about committing to you. Instead, be the women to complement your man and that will do wonders for winning over his heart.
About Amy North
To know more about Amy, visit www.devotionsystem.com.