- in Commitment
In this video Helena Hart from Commitment Connection talks about how frustrating it can be if you want more from your guy friend - you may be wondering if he is interested in you as more than just a friend.
Trying to figure a man out puts you in your masculine energy.
Whenever you try to figure something out or get something done, you go into your masculine energy. To get a guy to be attracted to you you want to be in your feminine energy. So the first thing to do is to take a step back and stop trying to analyse or work out why he is being the way that he is being.
Just be yourself and see what happens. If he is interested in you you will know on a deep intuitive level - women just do.
So what are some signs that he IS interested in you?
You can tell quite easily as he will do things such as lean forwards, look into your eyes when you are talking, maintain eye contact with you, may touch you on the arm, want to be tactile with you, such as hug and kiss you goodbye when you are leaving. The best thing that you can do is remain laid back and open, open in your energy.
Don’t try and over analyse something that has happened once it has happened as you once again shut yourself off to your feminine energy and step back into your masculine energy.
Use the soft and space approach to the situation.
What this means is to remain soft, feminine, and give the situation some space to flourish. Men are pretty simple in the sense that if he is interested in you, he will show it, if you are not putting the pressure on, and are totally relaxed and being yourself.
Give yourself some time, see what happens. If he likes you, you will soon know about it.
About Helena Hart
As a Certified Life and Relationship Coach with a masters degree in Psychology – and a Master Coach Teacher for Rori Raye – Helena Hart understands the challenges of balancing the masculine energies she uses in work with the feminine energies necessary for success in dating and relationships.