I’m going to give you the bad news first. The bad news first is that yes, studies show that while men who have accomplished a lot the mating market opens up more and more widely for them, they have more and more options, women who have accomplished a lot find that the market actually narrows and that is true…
Continue readingIf you stop and think about it, dating is a really unrealistic ritual we have in our society because you’re supposed to get together with a total stranger you know, a lot of money gets spent and you’re supposed to figure out in this unrealistic atmosphere if this is a good person for you…
Continue readingEighty-five percent of the women I’ve asked that question to will say, “Yes, I can develop attraction over time. Yes, my old boyfriend, I wasn’t attracted at all in the beginning and fell in love with him over time.” But here’s the bad news…
Continue readingDating is really just about trying on hats. And you got to try on enough hats. So it is a number’s game. But the other thing that’s so important is keeping your positivity with you at all times because guess what? Where do men show up? Good men, good quality men? Everywhere. They’re at the carwash. They’re at the coffee shop. They’re at the sushi bar. They’re at the deli counter…
Continue readingEighty-five percent of the women I’ve asked that question to will say, “Yes, I can develop attraction over time. Yes, my old boyfriend, I wasn’t attracted at all in the beginning and fell in love with him over time.” But here’s the bad news…
Continue readingEighty-five percent of the women I’ve asked that question to will say, “Yes, I can develop attraction over time. Yes, my old boyfriend, I wasn’t attracted at all in the beginning and fell in love with him over time.” But here’s the bad news…
Continue readingAfter a long break from being in the dating world, the thought of meeting someone new and connecting heart to heart with all the possible internal conflicts you may have about can certainly cause anxiety and stress for most people. You just need to know that there are things you can do to overcome dating anxiety and then enjoy dating again…
Continue readingWhen I work with couples, even if I’m not teaching them tango as a dance, I am presenting them with the metaphor of tango in our discussion about their relationship. In any healthy tango partnership, as in any healthy intimate relationship, the two must first be able to maintain their own individual axis and equilibrium so that one does not fall down should the other walk away
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