In this video Claire Casey, a dating and relationship coach shares advice on how to break the pattern and stop attracting the wrong kinds of men.
Many women find themselves repeating patterns – attracting lots of guys, but always winding up with the same kind of man and if this is the wrong kind for YOU, then you can change this.
Look around you. Lots of men are attracted to you. Not just the wrong kind
You may find yourself saying that you always seem to attract the wrong men but if you are honest with yourself and stop and look around you, you will see that there are all kinds of men who like you and are interested in you, but you only ever seem to pick a certain kind of guy. This is a choice that you are making and the great thing about choices, is that you can change them in an instant.
Make a choice to be more selective and look closer at some of the guys that you have been with. Dig deeper and don’t just pick based on looks or who is your type. Use your mind and think about where you are at right now and what you want from love. Read the next point to learn more about this.
Choose where you want to be right now in love
Maybe you WANT to just casually see men and if this is the case, great why not? But if you are looking for love and it is not just showing up that easily then make a choice to start a plan. Decide that you want to find love and then look at the qualities that the man of your dreams would have and write it down. Be very specific and next time men are into you, make sure that you look at who they are, every aspect of them and give the ones you are writing off a try. You are the only one who can change bad habits so take control of this.
Ask yourself why you are afraid of love
More often than not, we chase the wrong kind of person because we are scared to love or be loved. Is any of this applicable to you? If so then you need to spend some time digging a little deeper before you keep on dating maybe – get to the bottom of this so that you get rid of whatever baggage is holding you back and can just finally start to live your life and find a love that best suits you. You may not even realize that something has been holding you back and it can be like a weight has been lifted off your chest when you do admit to yourself that something is clearly holding you back.
However you choose to approach this, never forget that you make choices and if you do not like the state of your love life then create one that you desire using daily visualization techniques, be sure to google the law of attraction if this is something that you are not really familiar with and see just how powerful your thoughts are in attracting the wrong men.
About Claire Casey
Claire Casey is the author of the bestselling online program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.” She has devoted her writing to empowering women in the areas of dating, romance, relationships, and sexual intimacy.
To know more about Claire and learn how to attract and keep the man of your dreams, visit her website below.