In this video the breakup expert Brad Browning, talks about the 5 golden rules that you must obey if you want a chance at getting your ex back. Take note so that you don’t destroy things completely.
Rule 1: Don't let your ex see your emotions
If your ex sees that you are an absolute wreck because of the breakup then they will place less value you on. Never let your ex see how upset you are. Put on your happy face and do the opposite of what your ex would expect you to do.
Rule 2: Don’t be too obvious about trying to get your ex back
You have to be subtle. Don’t be too obvious. Don’t post stuff on social media that is obviously written to get your ex’s attention. Your ex will see straight through this and it will ruin all chances of the two of you getting back together. Play it cool, and act as if you are just actually getting on with things.
Rule 3: Keep yourself busy.
Only time can really heal things, but until that time has passed, you can stay busy and keep yourself as occupied as much as humanly possible. Push yourself out of your social comfort zone and get out for coffee if you have a spare ten minutes. But keeping yourself busy really is one of the single most important things that you can do to get through your breakup and take your mind off your ex.
Rule 4: Get help from an expert.
Getting your ex back often requires a plan - you need to do things differently to how you did them before. What seems like the logical strategy often doesn’t work. Get help from a breakup coach and give yourself the best possible chance of getting back together with your ex. Do not try and go it alone and totally destroy things.
Rule 5: Slowly and steady wins the race.
If you start spamming your ex with texts and calls and are generally trying to speed up the process of getting your ex back into your arms, stop it. If you try to move too quickly and push too hard, your ex will realise what you are doing and you will blow things and have to start all over again.
It's very important for you to have patience. Getting your ex back into your arms will NOT happen overnight.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.