In this video the breakup expert Brad Browning talks about how to show your ex that you’ve changed since your breakup so that your ex will second guess the breakup and hopefully want to get back together with you.
You need to erase the negative so that your ex feels positive towards you.
When your ex hears your name, he will think about the negative stuff, that is just the way that it goes, because you just broke up. You want your ex to have some time and space from you so that he can let those negative feelings go and make space for the positive.
Get yourself out there. Launch a new you.
Focus on yourself, get yourself fit, some new clothes, get your hair done, go out and enjoy a social life, maybe even do a bucket list activity, such as Skydiving so that your ex thinks ‘wow, my ex is really getting on with their life without me’.
You want to drop hints subtlety so that your ex sees all of this. Here is how:
- Leverage social media - get friends to tag you in photos rather than you post them yourself. Make it look natural so that it doesn’t seem weird to your ex.
- Drop hints through mutual friends - great if your ex has blocked you on social media. Mention changes that you have made to your life, that new friend, that date and so on. Your ex WILL ask his friends about you when he sees them.
- Drop subtle casual hints when you speak to your ex - if your ex asks how you life has been, say really good thanks, I finally went skydiving haha.
- Make changes to your appearance - update your wardrobe, lose some weight, get your hair done, post photos on social media. Even minor changes such as a haircut and get your ex to notice and think about you.
Don’t act in the ways that your ex will be expecting you to act.
In other words, be out there, focus on you, live your own life. Your ex will be expecting you to call him, text him and Facebook stalk him. Don’t do that. And be subtle about how you let your ex see that you appear to be moving on with your life.
If you can do this, not only will you get your ex’s attention but you will also start to feel great within yourself, and this will help you whether you are back with your ex or not.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.