In this video Brad Browning talks about what to do if you see your ex on tinder. Coming across your ex on the internet, is never going to be a pleasant experience, but it is one that can actually work in your favor. Brad discusses what to do so that you can use this to help your ex come back to you.
Tip One: Do NOT freak out.
Often when we have gone through a breakup, it is human nature to want to seek out company - and chances are, if you see him on Tinder, the only thing going on is that he is lonely. So - don't just assume that if you seem him on a dating site, that it means that he has moved on from you. And - before you start having a go at him for being on Tinder, realise that YOU were on there also.
Tip Two: Don’t get discouraged.
If you see your ex on online dating sites, don't let it discourage you from using those sites yourself. It can be a great to way to meet new people and it will help you to start to feel confident again, about putting yourself back out there.
Tip Three: Swipe right!
So, the big dilemma if you do come across your ex on Tinder, is do you swipe left or do you swipe right? Well… swipe right of course! That way, you will appear as a match for him and if he is interested he will swipe right for you also. This could be a great way to get back together - and you can really have a giggle about this.
Tip Four: Have a joke about it.
Laugh about how all of your matches have been creepy and weird. Don’t make your ex think that you’ve been seriously pursuing anybody else. Just joke about how online dating has not worked out for you but you are glad that you got to catch up with him on there.
Tip Five: Do not pry.
Don’t get too heavy too quickly and ask him if he has been seeing anybody else, had sex with anybody else, be sure to stay lighthearted and neutral, build the momentum and just have a good time with him. Avoid bringing up your breakup at all costs.
Tip Six: Invite jealousy.
You can talk about how many matches you have had on Tinder. Say something like ‘ One of my matches told me he’d like to go on a long walk on the beach with me. Can you say LAME’... Once your ex realises how many people are chasing you, it might make him want a second chance with you. So don’t be afraid to make yourself ‘popular’.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.