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In this video Carlos Cavallo from datingadviceguru.com talks about how you can get a guy to chase you, even if you have slept with him. No game playing involved, just a whole heap of confidence in your ability to keep him.
1. Be accepting - ALL of the time.
If you want men to be confident in reaching out to you and chasing you then you need to show him that you are accepting and aren't just going to reject him. Men are so used to women being defensive these days, because of the guys who are on the market who are players…. Often, women can get into a headspace where they then tar every man with the same brush and so men can get used to playing it too cool and sitting back, when really you want him to chase you.
2. No games - just play it straight.
Being too coy is going to work against you. The old dating advice that tells women to play hard to get if you want a man to chase you has now gone out of the window. We are currently in a ‘no means no’ climate, and so if you make out like you are not interested, chances are that he will read that at face value.
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve, but don't resort to trickery in order to make him chase you.
3. Make him desire you… Stay sexy…
It can be easy for a woman to show all of her cards too soon once she has had sex with a man but a guy still wants you to be that mysterious Goddess… so be sure to be her. Dress sexily, in a way that you feel comfortable and confident with of course, and have an air of mystery about you.
4. Reel him in and then nudge him back out again.
This means, even if you want to spend all of your time with him, encourage him to get back out there and live his life, get back to work hang out with the guys - show him that you are not one of those women who gets a guy and then tries too hard to keep him. Let him go a little so that he has to work to get your attention again, It's not the same as game playing, it’s just about creating a healthy balance,
5. No calls, no texts, no emails - let him chase you.
A guy WILL keep up the chase if he senses that you are just fine without him. So, stay confident, stay strong minded. Don't Video fall apart and become needy just because you have slept with a guy. Let him chase you, and value yourself as someone who is worthy of chasing.
About Carlos Cavallo
Carlos Cavallo is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt instructor and motivational life coach. He’s the author of Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart, The Connection Code, and too many other programs to mention.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management, Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, energy work, Eastern philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Carlos Cavallo’s programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive single, you can attract the right man, achieve more success with your personal and social world, and experience a more rewarding life.