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In this video relationship expert Helena Hart talks about what to do if a man starts to pull away in the very early stages of dating.
Often it has nothing to do with something that you have done.
If a man feels that you are not the one, he will often just back away. Of course, women like to know why, and whether they have done something.
Don’t chase him down, if he is pulling away early on it means that he just feels that it is not the right match and you don’t want to beat yourself up about that or try to analyse what went wrong.
Try and stop trying to figure out what went wrong and think of it in a positive way which is that he is making space for the right man to come into your life.
Step back and be feminine and see if he is drawn back to you.
Rather than obsessing over what the problem may be, or start asking him what is wrong, just take a step back. Let the man pull away because when a man is pulling away he simply needs to shut down for a little while.
If you chase him you will drive him away even further but if he does like you and this has nothing to do with you, the best thing that you can do is step back into your feminine energy. He is much more likely to snap to and see you in a whole new way if he is the right man for you.
Let him know that you are there for him if you feel you would like to.
It’s okay to let a guy know that you have noticed that he is acting differently. Maybe there IS something up with him. Not all guys are walking away yet so many women jump to the conclusion that a guy IS doing that and then begin to chase him.
Let him know that you are here for him - and if he is the right guy for you he will come back to you but don;t be afraid to step away, into your feminine energy and just hang out with yourself, and your friends and enjoy life a little.
About Helena Hart
As a Certified Life and Relationship Coach with a masters degree in Psychology – and a Master Coach Teacher for Rori Raye – Helena Hart understands the challenges of balancing the masculine energies she uses in work with the feminine energies necessary for success in dating and relationships.