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In this video Matthew Coast the Commitment Coach talks about why a guy may not move the relationship forward, even if he is interested in you. If you are trying to work out whether he likes you or just isn’t that into you, read on to find out what this lack of real interest may mean.
If a guy doesn't feel like there is an urgency to move things forward with you then he won't.
A guy needs to feel like he has to take you off the dating market, and that if he doesn't then he is going to lose you. He needs to feel a sense of urgency so that he doesn't end up losing you to another guy. So don't be too available all of the time,
A guy needs to feel that you are in alignment with him.
A guy needs to feel that the two of you have something in common. Yes, looks and attraction play a huge part of things in the beginning. But above and beyond that a guy needs to feel like there is a deeper connection and that the two of you are in alignment otherwise he will get bored easily and won't have the drive to pursue things with you.
A guy might feel inadequate or unworthy.
Over time, a guy might feel insecure the more that he gets to know you. He might feel that he is inadequate or unworthy. If he feels this way it affects his masculinity and he will figure that he is better off alone as he doesn't want to feel this way.
Of course, if you are fabulous, you can only be you and if he feels insecure around you then that is just one of those things. But think about how you are coming across to him. Are you focused only on trying to impress him with the wonderfulness of you?
Be sure to ask him questions about himself, and make him FEEL good as this is what gets a man to feel a strong attraction towards you.
Don't just assume that the guy is confident because he appears to be either. Not all guys are, and they do need some reassurance, they just perhaps don't go out their way to ask for it like women do.
About Matthew Coast
Matthew Coast helps women who are struggling with their love lives, find a quality man and get into a committed, lasting relationship. To discover what’s stopping you from attracting the relationship you want, visit his website below.