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In this video, relationship adviser and author of “Get the Guy” program, Matthew Hussey, shares three texts that reveal your boldness and confidence. Not only will it make you more attractive to the guy you like but it can also very well lead to a date with him.
#1: “I’m craving our conversation”
This message gets you to snuck into his day and jolt him out of whatever he’s doing. It pulls him into the moment with you. This is no small talk. These simple words are quite meaningful. It’s a compliment to the type of dynamic you have with him – that your connection has depth. The best part? You’re not asking him out but you make him want to ask you out.
#2: “Ahem. Why haven’t you asked me to see the new Blade Runner yet?”
This is a playful text and it makes you seem demanding but in a rather adorable way. It’s demanding and rather unreasonable because in the first place, he didn't even know you wanted to watch that movie (and this works best if he didn't know you wanted to watch the movie).
It shows your vulnerability on one hand because it somehow says, “I really want to do this with you”. But on the other hand, you’re also being affront, basically telling him, “Take me to see this movie please”.
#3: “It’s taco Tuesday!!! Let’s go get tacos and a margarita tonight J”
This is the “let’s go have some fun” type of message. It tells him to get off the couch and get in the game. It’s very bold and super confident because you didn't even know whether he’s busy tonight or not – you took a risk that he might not even be available and still you went on and asked him out.
He’ll be thinking exactly that and for him, that level of confidence is really hot. The fun that the evening promises to be also adds to your attraction. Only high valued women – women who know their worth – are self-assured enough to send such a message. They know they’ll be worth dropping everything for even on a last minute invite. With this much going into that one text, it’s much likely to make him say, “screw it, I’m in!”
As a last note, these text messages show the cool, fun, and confident side of you so don’t use it on guys who aren’t even trying; they’re just not worth your time and effort. Save these instead for the guy who’s investing in you the same way you’re investing in him.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.
To know more about Matthew, visit www.howtogettheguy.com.