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In this video, Matthew Hussey, author of the successful “Get the Guy” program, shares tips on how to make a man fall for you. Specifically, he focused on how you can make the best impression within those crucial first two weeks of attraction.
#1: Have a real date only policy
He might ask you to “snuggle at home and order in” after just a couple of dates. Don’t be tempted to give in because he hasn't earned it yet. To make a good impression, tell him that as much as you like a snuggle, you prefer to go out in the world with him first.
#2: Buy the popcorn
Whether you believe it’s a guy’s job to pay for the date or not, you need to make him feel that you want to contribute as well. The fact that you’re trying will mean a lot to him. It's not about the money, it’s about the gesture. When you don’t even try, that’s when he feels used.
#3: Get excited about the little things
You want to be the “cool” date. But when we say cool, it does not mean indifference – or the “been there, done that” attitude. Being cool means being passionate – being that person who’s excited with both the big and small stuff.
When you show excitement everytime you are with him, you send him a message that you’re a fun person to be with. That gets him to start thinking up a long list of cool things that he’ll want to do with you next.
#4: Be a grownup and pick up the phone
Would-be couples are barely picking up the phone to call each other these days and women are quick to put the blame on men. While women should not be the one to call the guy all the time, you can lead by example. That is, when you want to invite him to something or you have a few minutes to spare, pick up the phone and call him.
By calling him, you are setting a standard – it’s like you’re telling him that this is what it means to have an adult relationship with you. You’re letting him know that you expect no less of him as well. Also, by being the first to call him, you’re giving him a signal that it’s okay to call you. Most guys just aren’t sure whether you’d like that or not and so they settle on just texting you.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.
To know more about Matthew, visit www.howtogettheguy.com.