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In this video, relationship and dating coach Matthew Hussey rounded up five flirty treats you can give your man. This was published in time for Halloween but a little tweaking can make it relevant anytime of the year. It’s also arranged in order, beginning with treats if you’ve just started dating someone progressing into tips you can use if you’ve been dating for some time.
#1: Send him a picture of yourself before you go out
Not a picture of yourself in the nude, of course, but a picture of you all dolled up in your Halloween outfit. Whether you're going out as Wonder Woman or as a sexy ketchup bottle, send him that picture because when he sees it, he’ll likely go: “Oh my god, she’s going to be out all night looking this hot”. And that will get you firmly lodged in his thoughts all evening.
#2: Present him with 2 tickets to a haunted house
This gets you both into a situation where you’re scared and he’ll get to play the part of your protector, looking after you. Every time it gets even the slightest bit hair-tingling, you have the perfect excuse to jump right into his arms. Moments of heightened adrenaline connect two people, as studies have shown. So your haunted house experience may just be your most romantic yet.
#3: Send him his favorite candy
Send him his favorite candy wrapped in a pretty little box. Or you can deliver it personally. What’s sweet about this gesture is that you know him enough to know what candy he likes and that is adorable. It didn’t cost you much but it speaks volume about you and the attention you pay to him.
#4: Send him a movie trailer text
Send him a link to a trailer for a scary movie with the message: “I’m only watching this if you’re there to protect me”. Maybe you are not really the type to get scared easily but guys are big about being able to protect you. The thought that you want him to play the part of superhero – your own, personal superhero – is something that will make him melt.
#5: Have a private outfit picked out especially for him
Pick an outfit that is really sexy, something not meant to be seen out in public. When the two of you get home from whichever – say Halloween – party you were attending, quickly change out of your costume and into this saucy outfit. When you come out and parade your costume for him, he’ll realize there was this one part of the celebration that was reserved just for him.
Remember though that this is a treat you must reserve only for the guy that you are actually dating and for sometime. This is not for someone you just met last week – he needs to earn it first.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.
To know more about Matthew, visit www.howtogettheguy.com.