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In this video, Amy North, a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada, shares five phrases so powerful, they will make your guy desperate for your love and affection. In other words, these are the phrases men would absolutely love to hear from women but rarely do.
#1. “Can you do me a favor?”
Guys would like to feel manly when they are around you but making comments like “you’re so strong” or “what big muscles you have” sounds a bit trite.
So how should you comment on his masculinity to win him over? Ask him for his help. Let him know that you need him and that you feel safe with him around. Don’t worry about it making you seem weak or needy; just ask enough to show him that you acknowledge his physical abilities and appreciate his help.
#2. “I love your style”
Commenting on his looks won’t get you really far, no matter how flattering it is. After all, he had nothing to do with that – it’s genes. But saying he’s got great style? Now, that’s an altogether different thing.
Noticing his style means you notice the effort he put into his appearance and that he did really well at it, too. Not only will it boost his confidence, it will make him feel good to be around you. And that is essential to making him fall in love with you.
#3. “You’re really dedicated/hard-working/focused…”
Same as with the looks versus style issue, you don't want to comment on anything that’s obvious. For instance, he’s a full time writer; complimenting him on his writing skills won’t flatter him much. He probably gets that all the time, too. Instead, zero in on the less obvious traits about his being a writer. Compliment his dedication to his craft or his ability to focus.
#4. “You’re so smart”
For a man, feeling manly is not just about being physically strong. They not only want to be complimented for their brawns but also for their brains. You can do this by respecting him and valuing his opinions.
Bring your tough questions to him and let him show off his sexy mind. When you're the one who makes him feel wise, witty, bright and brilliant, you will be the one he wants to stay close by.
#5. “I support you”
Be the woman who encourages her man to reach for his dreams and goals. Your unrelenting support will be his motivation to become the best version of himself. Be the person he can share his thoughts and ambitions with, free of judgement. Even if his chances of seeing his dreams come to fruition are slim, the fact that you are his biggest fan will make him love you more.
About Amy North
Amy North is a relationship coach and best-selling author
from Vancouver, Canada. She specializes in helping women from around the world find and keep the man of their dreams.
Amy’s acclaimed online program, The Devotion System, has sold thousands of copies and is widely regarded as the #1 women’s dating guide on the planet.
To know more about Amy, visit www.devotionsystem.com.