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In this video Claire Casey, a dating and relationship coach shares advice on how to get out of the friend zone.
Be flirty, be sexy and be seductive
The first thing to do, is change your energy level and stop giving off the just friends vibes. If you want him to see you as more than just a friend, you need to flirt a little and change the game, and see how he reacts to it. If he is interested too, he will respond to this. Okay, at first, he may feel a little odd and may need time to think about how he feels, but if he has any of those feelings lurking inside, he will perhaps feel brave enough to act on them if you give him a gentle push in the right direction.
Date other men and make yourself less available
This may sound weird, because you don’t want to make him think that you like other people, and you certainly don't want to play mind games. But you do want to be less available to spend all of your time with him, and let him see that you have male interest, and can’t always just be available for HIM. If he wants all of your time and finds that he feels a bit jealous that you start going out on dates, it may push him to think about why he feels this way and how he feels about YOU.
Accept that he may back off and your friendship may be over
Getting together with a friend can be wonderful if things work out in your favor, but of course, if you show you are interested in him and he doesn’t feel the same way, he may feel that he needs to back off and take some time out to think about what he wants to do, and may even not know how to be around you and continue the friendship. You have to decide whether you think that this is a risk that you are happy to take. If so, then go for it, and change tactics and see how he responds to you. Don’t assume the worst, this could be your chance of happiness with the guy who is right for you and he may feel the same way about you as you do about him.
Unless you go for it, you will never know what could be!
About Claire Casey
Claire Casey is the author of the bestselling online program “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.” She has devoted her writing to empowering women in the areas of dating, romance, relationships, and sexual intimacy.
To know more about Claire and learn how to attract and keep the man of your dreams, visit her website below.